1. What Aries Needs from a Lover
Your Aries lover is ruled by Mars – he or she needs the thrill of the chase, and to feel that love, like all of life, is a Great Adventure. Your Aries will not be happy sitting at home by the fire night after night – they need a quest to pursue and a dream to fulfill. Aries needs a partner willing to set sail at a moment’s notice – impulsive and action-oriented, he prefers not to plan and overthink a situation. Aries isn’t always adept at expressing his feelings, but don’t let that fool you. More than most signs, they need appreciation to know that they are valued!
2. How Aries Shows Love
Aries is the courtier, and whether male or female has a longing to live out a courtship from days of yore. In the heart of an Aries, you’ll find the soul of a Knight of the Round Table: noble and true, and unwilling to share you with any other Knight or Lady. Aries individuals need to be first, but they will want you to be a passenger on their adventure ride. While Ariens are independent and love their freedom, they do not enjoy being alone.
3. Astrological Types Compatible with Aries
The more sensitive types, such as individuals with Pisces or Cancer in their charts, may find the Aries directness and lack of tact difficult to handle. Aries has a quick temper, but the flames die out quickly and Aries will be genuinely surprised to find that feelings have been hurt as a result of their impetuous emotion. Aries is most similar to the other fire signs, Leo and Sagittarius, and these types will tend to understand the self-directed nature of Aries. The air signs Gemini and Aquarius also love that sense of freedom and will understand it in their Aries lover. But Aries individuals are most drawn to types that will bring out their soft sides, such as Venus-ruled Libra and Taurus.
4. How to Open the Aries Heart
Aries lovers have a warrior nature, but they are the innocents of the zodiac. They are the first sign and correspond to the Fool card in the Tarot – the card of Trust. They respond very strongly to visual stimuli such as clothes and appearance. Once an Aries is attracted physically, only then can his or her heart truly open. Aries cannot abide deception or games; they require direct communication and to know exactly where they stand. But all Ariens, whether male or female, need to feel that the choice of lover belongs to them. They’re not afraid to compete for love, but they are terrified of being played for a fool.
5. Turn-ons for Aries
Those born under Aries seek adventure and love to live on the wild side, and they are the same in bed! Tempt them in an airplane, or risk being caught in a public place. They are highly stimulated by the desire of their partner, and knowing that they are desired will keep them in the mood. Aries’ ruler is Mars, the planet of both anger and sexuality, and there is a fine line between the two for Aries! Anger can quickly turn to libido if the situation is right. They are inquisitive and don’t mind trying new things – in fact, boredom is the one thing that will almost always be a turnoff for Aries.
6. Aries’ Deepest Love Secret
The Aries desire to be first can give them a dependency on the people that they love, but they will never allow you to see how dependent they really are on you, and how much they crave your love. This is something you will have to discover on your own!
7. Things to Avoid with Your Aries Beloved
Aries isn’t afraid to compete for you, but trying to make him or her jealous will backfire in the end. Trying to control your Aries lover will not turn out well either – whether male or female, Aries individuals have to be in charge of their own destiny. And good luck trying to manipulate an Aries into doing what you want! Aries prefers the direct approach and is easily bored trying to figure out some hidden agenda.
8. How to Communicate with Aries
Aries is a fire sign, and all of the fire signs are self-centered to some degree, with Aries being the most extreme of the three. It’s not a personality defect; it’s simply the way they are wired! But their natural lack of empathy can make it difficult to communicate emotions. Your Aries lover is more likely to be visual than sympathetic, and drawing a picture with words can be more effective than trying to explain how you feel about something.
9. How to Connect Spiritually with Aries
For Aries, life is a quest and the same can be true for their spiritual life. Because Aries is an action sign, they are happiest when in motion. Your Aries lover will not be content to sit quietly in meditation, or in intellectual discussions about God. Tai Chi, Chi Gong, walking in nature – participating in these kinds of activities with your Aries will bring you that deep spiritual connection that you crave.
10. How to Hold onto an Aries Forever
Provide your Aries with a life of stimulation and excitement balanced with adoration and emotional security, and you will have a contented Aries. Permit them to travel off occasionally to fulfill their inner quest and greet them when they return with unconditional love, and you will have a lover for life.